Frustrated?
A kindergarten teacher was helping one of her students, Joey, put on his cowboy boots. She and Joey struggled with great effort to get his feet into the little boots. Finally, when the second boot was on and she had worked up a sweat, she almost cried when Joey said, “Teacher, they’re on the wrong feet.” She looked down and sure enough; they were.
It wasn’t any easier pulling the boots off than it was putting them on. But she managed to keep her cool as together they worked to get the boots back on; this time on the right feet. When the task was accomplished, Joey announced, “These aren’t my boots.”
She bit her tongue rather than scream, “Why didn’t you say so?” Once again, she struggled to pull the ill-fitting boots off his little feet. No sooner had they got the boots off than Joey said, “They’re my brother’s boots. My Mom made me wear ’em today.”
Stifling a scream, she mustered up the grace and courage she had left to wrestle the ill-fitting boots on his feet again. Then helping him into his coat, she asked, “Now, where are your mittens?” To which he replied, “I stuffed ’em in the toes of my boots.”
The teacher’s trial starts next month.
Don’t you sometimes feel as frustrated by your circumstances as the teacher in the story? Life comes at us fast and furious and often tests our resolve, endurance, and patience. Each of us has “gone postal” at some time or another and perhaps said (or done) things which later we regret.
Scripture has a good word for us in the middle of frustrating encounters with others:
Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you. (Ephesians 4:29-32 ESV)