God chose marriage as an illustration to utilize in both the Old and New Testaments to express the intimacy of his relationship with his people. In it we see displayed his love, concern and care for the church. In turn, we discover our absolute dependence on him.
In Criswell's, The Doctrine of the Church, he directs us to Isaiah 54 as an Old Testament expression of this type. God is pictured as both the husband and Creator of Israel and is identified by no less than eight names. Each name reveals a different aspect of his relationship with
Israel. The passage also serves to highlight the unfaithfulness of Israel in contrast to God's unfailing love.
To explore this image in the New Testament one has but to examine Paul's writings in 2 Corinthians 11:2-3 and Ephesians 5:22-32. Both passages emphasize the love of Christ for the church and his full and adequate provision for her. In addition, we see the responsibility of the church to submit to the Lord, remain pure and continue in wholehearted devotion to him.
The Apostle John further contributes to the understanding of this metaphor in his writing in Revelation. The bride mentioned in Revelation 19:7-9 is the church which will rule with Jesus on earth for a thousand years (Rev 20:4-6). We also see an emphasis on the "righteous acts of the saints". This is in contrast to the Ephesians' passage, which stresses the work of Jesus in his sacrifice on behalf of the church:
So that He might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, that He might present to Himself the church in all her glory, having no spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that she would be holy and blameless.
In Revelation 21, we see "the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband." One interpreter sees this city, personified as a pure and holy bride, not so much as a place as it is a people; specifically a people meeting their God in eternal union.
John's final mention of the bride is in Revelation 22:17. Although the "I, Jesus" of verse 16 is not repeated here, there is no evident change of speaker in this verse. J.R. Michaels shares this observation in his commentary on Revelation:
Contrary to all modern translations, therefore, Jesus, not John, is the one quoting what the Spirit and the bride are saying, and inviting the thirsty to take the free gift of the water of life (v. 17). This is appropriate because only God or Jesus has the authority to give such an invitation to life (compare 21:6; also Jn. 4:14; 6:35; 7:37-38).
The bride is pictured in concert with the Spirit, echoing Jesus' "joyous summons to life." This invitation however, is not without its limitations. Michaels helps us see the scope and limitations of this passage in his commentary:
Jesus' concluding invitation to come and take the free gift of the water of life is similarly directed to anyone. The only exception is those who are truly "outside" (v. 15)--in the lake of fire (Rev 20:15; 21:8, 27). Just as in the parables of Jesus (above all in Matt 22:1-14), there is an unmistakable tension between the universal offer of life and the rejection of those who have not prepared themselves to receive life. This tension pervades the entire book of Revelation, in fact, the entire Christian religion. Christianity preaches a universal gospel of salvation, but not a gospel of universal salvation. All are invited to come, but not all do come. God respects human freedom to the extent that evil never disappears, even though it is defeated.
While no one is outside the scope of God's loving invitation, clearly there are those whose hard hearts will cause the summons to fall on deaf ears.
The church as the bride of Christ yields several insights that impact that the area of evangelism and church growth. First, it is good for us to note that God is the originator of the church. We have not banded together to seek him rather, it is he who has created and called us. This is made clear in the prophet's declaration:
For your husband is your Maker, Whose name is the LORD of hosts; and your Redeemer is the Holy One of Israel, Who is called the God of all the earth. For the LORD has called you, like a wife forsaken and grieved in spirit, even like a wife of one's youth when she is rejected," says your God.
Even though we are inferring this truth from an Old Testament passage that deals in particular with God's relationship to Israel, we are not abusing the scripture. Paul asserted Jesus' claim as the creator of the church when he wrote, "For by Him all things were created, both in the heavens and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or rulers or authorities--all things have been created through Him and for Him."
This fact should lead us to be wary of evangelistic and church growth practices that become centered on methodology instead of the Master. It is easy to become more preoccupied with space analysis and demographics than we are with prayer and obedience to the Lord. I do not mean to minimize the importance of church growth methodologies, but we must not exalt them over the "God who causes the growth." It is, after all, his church.
Secondly, the intimacy of the marital relationship and the fact that our Lord willingly died for us eloquently expresses the depth of the Lord's love for us. Paul powerfully reasons that "He who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him over for us all, how will He not also with Him freely give us all things?" Out of God's great love he provides everything we need. That is why Paul could express such confidence in his letter to the Philippians: "And my God will supply all your needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus."
Such great love and provision motivates us to reciprocate that love, as the Apostle John wrote; "We love, because He first loved us." The ultimate motivator for involvement in evangelistic and missionary enterprise is the gracious and steadfast love of God. Obeying his commands, living a pure life and embracing his mission are tangible ways of expressing our love for Jesus.
A life lived to the glory of God is a powerful witness. People need to observe a living example of God's love and power at work in another human being. Jesus exhorted his followers not only to preach the Gospel, but also to live it. As the evangelist D.L. Moody used to say:
The only Bible the world reads is the one bound in shoe leather: you and me! They must see this miracle-working power at work in our own lives, as a genuine living sample and proof that it can happen! This is our major witness.